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Other Sites I Like

  • Astronomy Picture of the Day
    My father-in-law sent me a link to this site and I love it. Normally astronomy really freaks me out but these guys make it kind of fun.
  • Cute Overload
    'Nuff said.
  • Go Fug Yourself
    Pure genius.
  • GroceryLists.org
    This is so weird and awesome.
  • Paris Vacation Apartments
    The MUST-STAY place if you're vacationing in Paris. Normally I would not shill for someone else on my website but they are so awesome I had to link to them.
  • PostSecret
    Voyeuristic and fascinating.
  • SF Gate
    Even though I live nowhere near San Francisco, I love this site. Good writing, interesting stories, and a different perspective than the East Coast view I see every day.

Stuff I'm Reading

  • Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan: Go Fug Yourself: The Fug Awards

    Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan: Go Fug Yourself: The Fug Awards
    I just pre-ordered this, I cannot wait to open it up!!!

  • Ian Caldwell: The Rule of Four

    Ian Caldwell: The Rule of Four
    I just finished this. I am still undecided on what I thought of it. Interesting, a pretty fast and fluffy read, but I was really unsatisfied by the ending. Maybe that's what they intended, but I don't think it worked for me.

  • Charles Dickens: A Tale of Two Cities
    I was supposed to read this in 7th grade and I never did. I did my book report on the movie (I know, bad me!) and then I never read the book. So now I'm finally reading it. Great so far - I'm on page 5.
  • Walter Isaacson: Benjamin Franklin: An American Life

    Walter Isaacson: Benjamin Franklin: An American Life
    I really struggled with this book. I got about a third of the way through it, maybe not even that far, and then I just couldn't go further. We'll see, maybe I can pick it up again later.

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June 24, 2007

The fun part about being a parent

My four-year-old daughter has been saying and doing some really interesting things lately. On Friday night, she and I were leaving to go have dinner together while my husband stayed home with the baby. As we were heading down the stairs, she stuck a purple crayon between her first two fingers, put it up to her lips, inhaled, took it away from her lips, and exhaled. I stood there in shock for a few seconds and then said, "Um, what was that?" Her answer? "It wasn't a cigarette, Mommy."

The other day she said something about syphilis. "Where did you hear that word, sweetie?" "On Friends!"

A dear friend of ours came to visit last weekend. Our daughter said this: "Hi Ashley! Let's play What Not to Wear. I'll be Stacy and you be Clinton. Mommy, you come in and show us your new clothes."

We got her progress report from school the other day (yeah, one of the great things about private school is the more you pay, the fewer days the kids actually go to school - all of those holidays that make 3-day weekends for the rest of the known universe are magically 4- and 5-day weekends at her school, making child care a super fun challenge for us working moms - and the less likely you are to actually see GRADES for your kids. Instead they get long narratives from the teacher about what interesting characters they are). One of my favorite parts said the following: "[P] participates enthusiastically in class and always has something meaningful to offer. Her favorite activites are singing, dancing and twirling around." Yup, that's my girl! The twirler! But it was really exciting to read how well she has adapted to being taught in French over 80% of the time and that she is able to form short sentences in French. So cool!

I shouldn't leave the baby out of this happy post either. Her latest accomplishments are flipping over from back to front and sometimes front to back, being able to hold a toy in both her hands, sometimes managing to put the binky into her mouth all by herself, tons of smiling, and within the past couple of days, laughing! With sound!

The doctor said we can start her on solid foods anytime now. We are trying to stave that off as long as possible because of how insanely messy it is. We're going to my aunt's wedding at the beginning of August so we'll be out of town for 5 days. I'm thinking I do not want to deal with baby food then, so we're targeting mid-August for the start of the fun that is baby's first solid foods. On the one hand, having been through this already, I know how goopy and gross it can be, but on the other hand, it is the next sign of her growing up! So fast, as they always say, but it's a welcome change. I love babies, and I've loved every minute (OK, most minutes) of both of my girls' baby times, but now that I have a big girl, I know how amazing it is to watch the person that these babies become, and I cannot wait to see who this second little lady is going to be.

OK, I'm off to bathe the big girl so she'll be all clean for her first day of camp tomorrow! Woo-hoo!

June 13, 2007

Making progress

Lots of good news to report! The baby has learned how to flip over from her back to her tummy. For a while she would get her arm caught and shriek, but now she can get all the way over. Sometimes it still freaks her out a little to suddenly find herself on her tummy, but she is starting to get the hang of the whole deal. The other night I went in her room to feed her after I heard her crying on the monitor, and I was totally surprised to find her on her tummy.

Even better is the cat. He has stopped peeing in the fireplace! WOO-HOO!!!!!!!!!!!! I finally took the advice of covering the pee area with aluminum foil, and I also put down some small pieces of firewood to prevent him from batting it away (though I don't know if he would do that, I just wanted to be sure), and he hasn't gone anywhere near there since. Also the foil seems to be masking the smell of stale pee from before. I do have a pretty good pee-smell-removal formula, so I am going to peel back the foil one of these days and apply some more of that before re-covering it, but at least there is NO NEW PEE. The cat is so much more welcome in my life now. I am glad because it is very hard to find people to adopt an 8.5-year-old antisocial cat who pees in the fireplace. Go figure.

The big girl is pushing all the boundaries lately, and it is quite a challenge for us not to yell and freak out too much. I guess that is what comes with the territory of being 4. But she is having her own little victories, like tonight she shampooed her hair all by herself, without being asked, and she is still the sweetest and cuddliest when she wants to be. Her school year ends on Monday and then the following Monday she starts day camp so she is pretty excited about that. We saw the daily schedule and she is going to be exhausted at the end of each day! It looks like so much fun. I was kind of pathetic at camp when I was a kid, but I was never the little joiner that she is, so I know she's going to have a blast. I am also excited that she is going to learn to swim. I am a lousy swimmer so I'm glad that properly trained people are going to teach her.

So life is good. Totally exhausting, often overwhelming, and in some moments quite trying, but always good. I look at my two little girls and my spectacular husband and wonder how I got to be so lucky. The stupid stuff will take care of itself, I know that, it's just a matter of finding a way to remind myself of that before I freak out and go crazy yelling about something that is ultimately unimportant. The real story is that I am the luckiest girl in the world.

June 11, 2007

Hell's Kitchen

OK, tonight I had the uniquely bizarre experience of watching that crazy show Hell's Kitchen for the first time. Um, WOW. I was sitting there with my mouth open practically the whole time. The fact that these people willingly sign up for this abuse, yowch. I would be one of the cryers, totally. I'd be out of there in five minutes. Don't let the door hit you on the way out, sweetie. That'd be me.

Gordon Ramsay seems to know his stuff and when he's not in the kitchen yelling at people he seems to actually be a reasonably stand-up guy. But oh my goodness, get him in the kitchen and he is an absolute bastard. I suppose it's fairly clear that the professional kitchen atmosphere is not for me. I am just still kind of in shock from watching it. Plus it got me all stressed out. I was planning on going to bed early after having a lousy night of sleep last night and then a crap day at work. Now I'm all keyed up from watching all this insanity. I guess I'll know better next week. Thank goodness for DVR.

June 04, 2007

OK, I guess I might have a few more things to say....

For example, we had a momentous event in the house this morning: the big girl checked with me about where she would be going this morning to make sure her clothes were appropriate (her school's dress code prohibits spaghetti straps), picked out an outfit, and put it on all by herself, WITHOUT EVEN BEING ASKED. I was drying my hair after my shower, and noticed that she had been gone for a little while. I went in her room, fully expecting to find her farting around on the floor naked, and discovered her with undies on and skirt on its way on, with no help at all from me. A few minutes later she pranced in, fully dressed, and totally coordinated, and extremely proud of herself.

How about that!! It was very exciting. Her daddy took her out tonight for ice cream after dinner - I was very tired so I stayed home with the very sweaty baby and tried to feed her enough to get her to go to sleep. That took a while. So of course we entertained ourselves with a few reruns of my new favorite show, What Not to Wear. I so love Clinton and Stacy. But OY, her crazy high heels - how does she walk in those things? She is going to make some podiatrist very rich in about twenty years with all the foot problems she's going to have. And yes, I know this makes me sound like a Jewish grandmother. Well, with any luck, someday I will be one. (OY again. That is a semi-scary thought.)

June 01, 2007

Wondering.......

I haven't been in a blogging mood much at all lately and I'm thinking about wrapping this thing up. I just don't think I have much to say anymore. Every post I start sounds the same: work is busy, family is busy, I love my girls, they are the most amazing kids ever, blah blah blah. All useful sentiments to have, but is any of it interesting for anyone to read? I'm not so sure. I've made some great friends through this blog, so I'm hesitant to let go of it because of that. But I don't want to blog just for the sake of blogging to keep in touch with people. I can email people directly..........I'm just not sure there's much left in the well. I'll keep thinking about it.

Have a great weekend everyone.